What I didn't know was that my friend really liked me, and had for a while, and was about to give up on us ever having a relationship. But he talked to a nice sister missionary in the visitor's center, and (although he did not tell her his story) her message of the day helped him decide that we could be friends, and that would be a good thing.
It was a good thing that he didn't give up on us, because the next day I figured out that I liked him. And the day after that he asked me out on our first date. So, love happens, even on Valentine's Day.
ps - six months later we got married, so I think it's worked out really nicely. I love you, my husband.